Sometimes it is good to go out and just drink. Tonight was that night. We have a strange set-up in our family, my sister is so talented she could do anything she wanted to, and yet does not realise it. I can command money from large companies and yet don’t feel like I deserve it. Mum could organise the world, and yet does not get recognised. Belle is the most intelligent person I know, and yet does not get the recognition. And as for Dad, he could solve anyone’s problems, and yet does not believe it. Nature vs. nurture, its clear, its genetic, there is something that stops good people recognising there strengths and differences. And yet there is another member of the family who has no redeemable features, and yet believes he is great? Why is this, it down to the sense of self? I have had a great night out with friends tonight and the one disagreement was about Lewis the cuckoo Hamilton, and that provides the answer. Nature creates the innate self, and nurture provides the tempering, but it is the person that really makes the difference. There are those that consider, and those that don’t, nurture does not shape this, it is the soul, there is something in us all that we can draw on or ignore, those that can do, those that cant make it. I have a very good friend and after a few bottles of wine we come back to Adam Crossier, he is a soulless individual, he has sacrificed people on the stairway of ambition, I will not do that. There is only one person who sees me in the mirror and that is me, if I can’t look at that image the why bother.
So, this is a preachy message to anyone who reads this, firstly if you are reading it then I have made you aware of its existence, check if you are the shadow in the mirror, and if not smile. Life is hard, but we make it better for people. We are the hidden power behind the hand. Next week I am going to put 8 people at risk of redundancy, but that is not because of me, but because of them. I will feel sick all week, and probably through until October when they final leave, but I will still look at the mirror and not hate the image, I will be true to myself, and that is all I demand.
So my blog’es, you are the special ones, you are the selfless ones, you are the talented ones. I don’t waste my time on the selfish, the greedy or the inadequate! Get up tomorrow and go about your lives with a smile on your faces, we are the ones that make a difference, we are the ones that keep the world turning.
Sleep well, enjoy life and always remember, you make someone smile just by being you!
So to DB, CM and DA I thank you, I enjoyed tonight, and learned some useful things
So, this is a preachy message to anyone who reads this, firstly if you are reading it then I have made you aware of its existence, check if you are the shadow in the mirror, and if not smile. Life is hard, but we make it better for people. We are the hidden power behind the hand. Next week I am going to put 8 people at risk of redundancy, but that is not because of me, but because of them. I will feel sick all week, and probably through until October when they final leave, but I will still look at the mirror and not hate the image, I will be true to myself, and that is all I demand.
So my blog’es, you are the special ones, you are the selfless ones, you are the talented ones. I don’t waste my time on the selfish, the greedy or the inadequate! Get up tomorrow and go about your lives with a smile on your faces, we are the ones that make a difference, we are the ones that keep the world turning.
Sleep well, enjoy life and always remember, you make someone smile just by being you!
So to DB, CM and DA I thank you, I enjoyed tonight, and learned some useful things
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